If I Only Knew!

This is a great topic......for me it is two things that goes back to the year 2000......

1.....l stopped going to the dentist every six months.....never got cavities & was tired of the arrogant behavior of the people......so l stopped going until about 2008.....never should have stopped.....l have been paying for it the last two years with serious $$$$.

2......In 2000 l payed off my car & credit cards & was debt free....all that remained was my ex wife’s car payment which was two years away from being payed off at the time.....my marriage went south the following year in 2001 & never recovered until our divorce in 2009/2010...

Thing is l saw the red flags & was in denial in 2000.....l should have gotten out then......l had no debt, we were not in a house yet....l would have still had to pay child support for our daughter who was 3 at the time.....but that next decade would have been less stressful & hurtful & less costly in lawyer fees.